Most people in Tulsa try to resolve matters like divorce, child custody, or child support on their own. They hope they can stay civil or that things will change quickly, and then they can return to life as it was. In some cases, this approach is fine. In other cases, waiting too long to seek professional legal help can cause unnecessary stress and anxiety as well as long-term consequences. A multi-state family law attorney from Stange Law Firm, PC, can help you.
If you are in an uncertain family law situation, knowing the signs that you need a family law attorney can help you to know when it is time to protect your rights and move forward with confidence.
Communication Has Deteriorated
One of the first signs that it may be time to seek legal help is communication that is not going well between the parties. Discussions that turn into arguments, go ignored, or result in the other person yelling or threatening you can all be indications that you may need an attorney. An attorney can help you to remain productive and on task by acting as a buffer between you and the other party.
You’re Going Through a Divorce or Legal Separation
In 2023, the marriage rate in Oklahoma was 5.9 per 1,000, with a divorce rate of 3.3 per 1,000. Divorce is more than paperwork and filling out documents. Oklahoma family law dictates what property is marital and must be divided, how child custody is determined, and when and how much spousal support may be awarded.
If you think you might be headed toward divorce or even legal separation, seeking a family law attorney early can give you an idea of what to expect and prevent mistakes that might have long-term consequences later.
There Are Children Involved
Any case that involves children is a good reason to seek legal counsel. Parents who establish custody, change or modify a parenting plan, or have issues with visitation all need to know what Oklahoma courts consider when determining the best interests of the child. A family law attorney can help you form a parenting plan that works with your child’s schedule and needs while also protecting your rights as a parent.
You’re Unsure of Your Rights
Child support, spousal support, and property division are among the many family law issues that carry financial obligations and rights. If you are unsure about what you may be entitled to as a spouse or parent, or you are concerned about what you might have to pay, a family law attorney can help. Knowing your financial position early on is the key to making informed decisions that work for you and prevent costly surprises.
The Other Party Has an Attorney
If the other parent or spouse has an attorney, it is usually a good idea to get an attorney, too. An attorney familiar with family law is well-versed in the procedural rules, timelines, and strategies for negotiation.
You may be at a disadvantage if you try to respond to pleadings and other documents or if you try to negotiate agreements and property divisions. Having your own family law attorney means you have someone on your side who can help you present your story and protect your rights.
Existing Court Orders Have Been Violated
Violation of existing court orders regarding custody, visitation, or support is also a sign you need a family law attorney. Oklahoma courts do not look kindly on violations of court orders. However, an attorney is necessary to properly file and present enforcement of the orders or ask for changes when there is a change of circumstances.
A Major Life Change Is on the Way
If you are considering a major life change, or if one is already in the works, it’s a good idea to hire an attorney, especially if this issue affects an ex-spouse or children, including:
- A job change
- Relocation
- Remarriage
Even in cases where life changes were not your choice, such as suddenly caretaking for a family member or a sudden sickness that causes you to leave your job, an attorney can help you navigate this and how it affects family issues. By being proactive, you can prevent some disputes before they start and protect your long-term interests.
FAQs
Q: Do I Need a Lawyer Even if My Family Law Issue Is Amicable?
A: Even the most amicable situations can benefit from legal advice. A family law attorney can make sure that the agreements you enter into are legally enforceable, fair, and do not inadvertently leave you open to future liability.
This is particularly important when the parties have children together or when significant assets are involved. The cost of having an attorney review or draft your documents now can save you time, money, and stress by avoiding future misunderstandings and disputes.
Q: Can a Family Law Attorney Help Enforce a Court Order?
A: Yes, they can help enforce a court order. If a custody, visitation, or support order is not being complied with, your family law attorney can assist in seeking enforcement through the court. This can include filing motions, requesting hearings, and asking for modifications if the situation has changed since the order was entered.
Q: How Can a Family Lawyer Help Me in a Court Battle?
A: A family law attorney can guide you through legal processes and correspond with the other party on your behalf. This legal guidance can help lessen your anxiety and emotional stress. An attorney can also inform you of your rights and responsibilities under the law. Professional protection of your legal rights often provides you with comfort and assurance.
Q: How Does Having Children Affect My Need for a Family Law Attorney?
A: Having children complicates the situation. When they are involved, the court will determine what is in the best interest of the child. This could include the schedule of custody, who has the authority to make decisions, and support. A family law attorney can ensure that you present a specific parenting plan while also protecting your parental rights and keeping the best interests of the child at heart.
About Stange Law Firm, PC
Stange Law Firm’s family law attorneys assist clients in and around Tulsa with divorce, child custody, child support, and other family law matters, including cases filed in the Tulsa County District Court in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Our firm has been focused on divorce and family law exclusively since 2007. Contact us today for your family law needs.